Let's continue our preparation for a mindful summer.
This week we are focusing on ourselves. The last couple of weeks we had activities for our students to help them reflect on the year and prepare for a mindful summer. This week we need to take some time for us.
Engage in self-care.
I have create two Summer Mindful BINGO sheets. They are full of ideas to keep us in the moment and be mindful.
Print a bingo board or two and see how many bingos you can get over the summer. Set goals and rewards for yourself.
Reward Ideas:
Go out for ice cream.
Spa day.
Have a drink of choice. 😉
Allow yourself to take a day off from cooking. Order food. Go out to a restaurant.
Go out for coffee with a friend.
Find something fun and positive.
Over the summer it is important to rest, reset and recharge to be ready for the fall.
Making sure we have a mindful summer helps us with our own lives but also helps us with our students. In the fall we can share the ways we made sure we were mindful over the summer. We can encourage mindful behavior by sharing our own mindful behavior.
To follow last week's blog, we have another worksheet we can use to be mindful as the school year closes out.
Last week we had the Rose, Thorn, and Bud, to reflect on success, struggles, and desired growth. This week we are going to think about how to plan a mindful summer.
Below is a link to three versions of a worksheet. One is a clean and simple version, for our students that like minimal distractions, and other two are fun and inspirational.
Our Mindful Summer Vision Board is a fun activity to help students plan out a positive and mindful summer.
The board has spots for; people they might see (or want to see), foods they want to eat, mindfulness they can do, new things they want to try, places they might go, goal to accomplish, and a free space to share anything planned for summer.
I find that when I ask students about summer I get a lot of, "I don't know" or "play on my phone/tablet/video games."
Not all parents are around in the summer. Not all parents encourage activity, reading, outside time, mindfulness, and exploration. For a lot of children summer is spending time sleeping in, staying up late, and playing endless hours of video games.
According to the American Academy of Pediatrics on average children spend nearly 8 hours a day on screens. In contrast children only spend 4-7 minutes a day outside.
We can help our students think about things to do over the summer and encourage them to explore screen free, outdoor activities.
The sad reality is, our students have been handed screens too young and are often not encouraged to do much of anything else. We need to be a force for good and encourage them to pick up a book, ride a bike, draw with sidewalk chalk, run through a sprinkler, go on walk, spend time outside taking deep breaths, watch nature, etc.
We need to spark an idea. We need to help our students see summer in a different light, preferably the sunlight not the light of a screen.
In the free space we could encourage them to think about what time they will go to sleep and wake up. We could encourage them to set a summer reading goal. If you aren't familiar with the Ypsilanti libraries they do a summer reading program with lots of fun rewards. Barns and Noble also has a summer reading program that encourages reading with rewards or stickers and a free book.
Take some time during these last few weeks and explore a mindful summer vision board with your students. Encourage positive, mindful habits to help prepare them for the next school year.
The end of the year wrap up is a busy time of year. Testing, field trips, park days, field day, and on and on. It is easy to forget to set aside mindfulness time.
A great end of the year mindfulness wrap up can be the exercise, Mindful Reflections.
This mindfulness can be done any time of year but I have taken the original idea and tweaked it to fit for an end of the year mindfulness activity.
The worksheet linked above is a reflection sheet using the ideas of a Rose, a Thorn, and a Bud.
The Rose represents a success. It is a way you have grown (like the rose).
The Thorn represents a challenge. It is something that you struggled with (the pokey thorn).
The Bud is an idea for the future. It is the opportunity to plan for growth (the growing bud).
This could be a great opportunity to connect with your students. Give them suggestions for highlights, even take the time to reflect on the struggles with them, and of course inspire the future.
It's never too late to connect with your students. Share your Rose, Thorn, and Bud.
This week's mindfulness is quick, but it is not easy.
Watch the two short videos below. Then, give it a try.
Don't give up.
These hand games would make great brain breaks. It is a great brain exercise that is active, new, challenging, and will engage your students.
Take a break from hard work or after testing for some challenging but entertaining hand games.
Hype it up.
Show the students you attempting to do the games.
Laugh as you fail (laughter is also good for the brain) and enjoy the challenge.
Before starting this with your students take some time to talk about:
1. Not giving up
2. Keep trying when things are difficult
3. Failing happens to everyone
4. Keeping a positive and fun view of trying something new
There is a good chance you will see me doing this with students. In fact this might be my mindfulness for next week's groups.
Not only can these activities be fun but they have benefits for the brain.
A study conducted over the course of 2015-2016 found that participants who engaged in hand games, such as in our videos, had improved cognitive function.
Brain games are a great mindfulness. This type of brain engagement forces you into the present and takes all of your attention. You have to pay close attention to your fingers.
I would love to hear how this goes for your classroom. I'd love to see you in action! Let's give it a go!!
In the video above we are reminded that our brains want to react rather than respond. We have to actively teach our brains to slow down (do not react), take a mindful pause, and then respond thoughtfully.
In the video we learn that we can pause and notice what is going on and what we feel. We can take time to name it. Then we create the gap. We create space to think and feel and work out what we want to happen next. Then we choose our move. How do we respond? What do we do next?
Have you ever noticed a student explode their emotions all over you and the class? In turn you may want to react just as large, perhaps you did. Our students do not yet have the skills needed to pause and think. We need to teach them the process. We first need to teach them the process by engaging in the process ourselves.
All emotions are valid.
All emotions are acceptable.
Sometimes our emotions take control and our behavior become out of control. Out of control behavior is not acceptable.
We need a mindful pause.
One mindful pause is to Stop, Breathe, Think, and then Choose.
We can also use the acronym STOP.
S: Stop
T: Take a deep breath: This is long slow and sometimes multiple breaths
O: Observe ( what is going on around you and inside of you)
P: Proceed: What helpful choice will make the feeling or situation better?
If we begin to practice STOP or follow the suggestions from our video we will give our brains and bodies time to sync up and make wise choices.
If we begin to practice theses techniques we will become good at them and we will be calm and ready to help our students learn and use the skills.
We need a calm brain before we can have a brain that reasons well.
I encourage us all to work to STOP and teach our students to do the same.
Earth Day is this Wednesday, April 22. Above is an 8 minute meditation related to Earth Day. This is a great mindfulness to help our students be in a mindset to focus on the earth and helping to care for it.
After listening to this mindfulness you can take some time to walk outside and engage in more earth friendly mindfulness.
Take a walk with your students to help clean up around the school. The mindfulness above talks about cleaning up trash. Your students should already be in the mindset to clean up.
You can also take a walk and focus on Sound Mindfulness. This time of year we can hear more birds chirp, the wind blow, and of course the sounds of people and cars.
You can also engage in a Sight Mindfulness. Take time to notice any buds popping out on trees, flowers springing forth, animals flying and running about, and of course people and cars.
If you would like to stay inside and provide movement for your students, below is a cute Earth Day Yoga, about 5 minutes long.
Inner Explorer also has some mindfulness that connects well with Earth day. You can find Gratitude for Trees and Gratitude for Earth on Inner Explorer.
When we begin talking about mindfulness with students we share that mindfulness is, paying attention, on purpose, without judgment. As we talk with students about Earth Day we can remind them to pay attention to nature, on purpose. We can take time to embrace how we spend time in nature and allow others to do the same, without judgment.
As we continue testing, engaging in some time outside can help our students. Outdoor mindfulness has been shown to help reduce anxiety and stress. Spending time outside can help enhance focus and improve memory. Being outside can also improve mood and self-esteem while reducing some symptoms of ADHD.
Time outside can also boost energy and reduce fatigue. Taking students outside before or after testing can help them with mental and physical health.
A mindful time outside can help us all during testing. Take a walk during lunch or prep. Go outside and take deep beaths in as you look around and experience nature.
This week, Earth Day, is a great time to remind us to spend more time outside, in a mindful way. Even after Earth Day this time of year is a great time to be outside. With all of the benefits of being outside, take some time outside with your students. Or take some you time outside. Engage with nature mindfully and enjoy the benefits.
The anxiety of testing can get to us all. We do not have to let the anxiety control us or our students. We can support the testing season with mindfulness.
Mindfulness has been shown to reduce anxiety, improve focus, regulate emotions, and promote resilience.
Mindfulness trains the brain to recover quicker, it interrupts the cycle of worry, and helps anchor to the here and now and brings attention to each question.
Try utilizing Inner Explorer before heading into the gym for testing.
Take some time to review and share mindfulness tips the students can engage in during testing.
Below are some great mindfulness practices to help support the brain and body during testing.
1. Quick Calm
Try some counting breathing techniques. The key to this mindful activity is making sure the out breath is longer than the in. Having a longer out breath engages the Vagus Nerve and connects to the parasympathetic nervous system. This is our rest and digest system. It is the opposite of the fight or flight system.
Try
2-1-4 (2 in, 1 hold, 4 out)
4-4-6 (4 in, 4 hold, 6 out)
4-7-8 (4 in, 7 hold, 8 out)
These breathing techniques will help lower blood pressure, reduce heart rate, reduce anxiety, and promote calm.
2. Balanced Breathing
Our kinder classes learned this breathing technique last week, so I know we all can give it a go. This involves closing off one nostril to breathe in. Then hold the breath and switch nostrils to breathe out. Now with that same nostril breathe in again. Switch and breathe out. Last leave both nostrils open and take in a deep breath and then breathe out.
3. Stretching and Yoga
Movement before the test can help get out wiggles and relax the body.
4. Superhero Pose.
This is an oldie but a goodie. The beginning of this blog post from 2019 talks about the superhero pose. Give it a quick look. Try it. See how you feel after standing like a superhero.
5. Set Intentions.
We need to have a positive, growth mindset. Set an intention or goal for the day. Set an intention for the test. "I will work hard. I will do my best. I will complete all questions." Here is a blog post from 2023 addressing having a growth mindset.
6. List Gratitude
Train your brain to be positive. Our brains have a negative bias. We have to train our brains to be positive. Use listing gratitude to help start the day with a positive mindset.
We have several blog posts on gratitude. If you go to MondayMindfulMoments.blogspot.com and type in gratitude by the little magnifying glass you can find several options to explore.
7. Grounding (in the here and now)
Grounding utilizes the 5 senses to anchor to the present.
5 Things you see
4 Things you hear
3 Things you touch
2 Things you smell
1 Things you taste (you could provide a mint to help wake up the brain)
8. Be Your Own Hype Man
Encourage your students to encourage themselves.
Take a moment to read my board with Testing Affirmations.
