Friday, December 13, 2019

Eat or Be Eaten….. OR…. Tracking Greater Self-Control


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In the book The Way of the Mindful Education, Daniel Rechtschaffen suggests that perhaps one of the first forms of mindfulness was animal tracking.

Close your eyes for a minute and put yourself in the footsteps of someone from a time in which you did not go to the store for food. Take a deep breath and picture yourself getting ready to track an animal you need, to be able to feed your family. From childhood you were taught by your elders how to track the animals you were seeking out. The way they taught you was to take you on a tracking hike. They showed you the tracks, they spoke the words into you. You didn’t sit and read about the tracking process, you lived it as you were taught it.

As you were living the teaching of tracking animals you were also taught to have an awareness of yourself and your surroundings. You were taught that as you tracked an animal, it was very likely, another animal was tracking you. If you wanted to survive you needed to have a total awareness of your present moment. You needed to be mindful!

This mindful living taught you to calm your body, slow your breathing, keep your focus on the present and your surroundings. As you learned about animals, you learned to control yourself. You were living your lesson of self-control.

George Leoniak the author of The Mindful Tracker, is an internationally known and certified tracker who teaches mindfulness alongside tracking. He talks about not putting projections into the tracking experience. He states it is best to have an open mind and not assume a track is a squirrel track until you study it, track it, and know it. He talks about how this relates to how we see ourselves and others and not putting projects onto others and getting to know them and getting to know ourselves.

George talks about never taking cell phones into a tracking environment to ensure you are full submerged in the experience, to find the zen, to be mindful. We can use this lesson to help us remember to put aside distractions an be fully present in our mindful experiences.

If you’d like to learn more from George check out his website - http://mindfultracker.com/

Now that we have explored the origin of mindful tracking and creating self-control let’s find a way to live this and pass it along to our students.

I would not suggest taking your students on a tracking adventure outside. That being said we can do a mock-tracking inside.

For this week’s mindfulness, after you have worked with your students to understand that background to mindful tracking, practice the tracking!

Maybe you simply read to them from the blog. Or maybe you get super creative and create a tracking story to tell your students. Make sure to talk about taking slow deep breaths, having quiet steady slow steps, keep focused wide eyes, and use your ears to listen for signs of what is and is not in your surroundings.

After you have created the back story, taught the mindful self-control, practice! Please!!! I have taken the time to put animal tracks around the building. I encourage you to take a mindful walk around the building, find a set of animal tracks (there are a few different sets) and track the animal.

Friday, December 6, 2019

Sitting with Ourselves


Another great element of self-control is being able to be still with ourselves, in silence.

In mindfulness we have various practices which can aid us with learning to be still, be silent, and gain better self-control.

Inner Explorer which we all have access to, every day, and we can send it home to parents too… has some silence practices.

Inner Explorer Daily Practice
Pre-K-1: Practice #10
1-4: Practice #15
5-7: Practice #20

These practices, which are titled Comfortably Quiet, encourage you to take small amounts of time to sit quietly with your own thoughts and feelings. 

They encourage you to explore your inner truths and wisdom to help you begin being your best self.

We can also introduce quiet mindfulness by helping our students engage more than one sense at a time.

You can start with asking your students to sit and listen to the sounds around them. Tell them that you will set a timer for one minute and during that time you would like them to be as quiet as possible so that they can hear the sounds around them. Ask them to notice a sound they have never heard or paid attention to previously. After you complete the minute have the students report on their findings.

You can also utilize the sense of sight during the quiet mindfulness. You can talk with your students about quietly observing the room and searching out a sight they have never paid attention to before. As the students search out sights, ask them to remain silent and take mental notes on the sights. Set the timer and allow one minute of time and then come back together to explore the findings.

I personally like to call this mindfulness Spiderman Mindfulness, telling the students they are using their spidy senses.

You could even use the sense of smell. This sense may take some preparation, such as, bringing in something that may have a noticeable smell. I do warn to have caution with this if you have anyone with breathing issues or sensitives to smell.

If you’d like to get creative, combine our Thanksgiving week blog with this one and do a mindful eating. Again, encouraging the quiet experience.

It can be difficult to sit in silence. 

I had a friend in college who would go running with me and talk the whole time. I liked to run in silence, utilizing the time to process thoughts and feelings and even plan out my day. My friend liked to run with someone to talk, engage, and build a friendship. 

My friend was in foster care for part of his childhood and he experienced a lot of silence. To him silence was not easy. It was not a way to process internally, but rather a reminder he was alone. 

Before beginning this mindfulness spend some time talking with your students about silence. Talk about the fear of the quiet. Be open with them and acknowledge the awkwardness, the uncomfortable moments, and sometimes the loneliness. 

Then talk with them about the quiet as an opportunity to help them process thoughts and feelings. Help them explore the ideas that silence can clear our minds and relax our bodies.

And as always, Practice With Them. Don’t be busy with other tasks. Sit in the silence with them.

Saturday, November 30, 2019

Creating Control and Focus


As we enter December, mindfulness is a great way to work on self-control with our students.

I began my research on this topic Googling “Mindfulness and Self-Control”. This leads to a very general “Mindfulness boosts self-control.” This is something that we know. I wanted to dig deeper for our students and for us.

While I was doing my research, I was also spending my drive into work listening to Experts on Experts with Dax Shepard, guest: Michael Gervais. Michael Gervais is a high-performance psychologist who often works with sports teams and those engaging in extreme sports. Michael shares about mindfulness being a big part of the self-control and focus utilized by his clients.

What a better way to talk about self-control than to address the need for control in sports. Many athletes such as; LeBron James, Derek Jeter, Misty May, Kerri Walsh, Kobe Bryant, Stephen Curry, Carli Lloyd, and the Seattle Seahawks, all utilize mindfulness to hone there focus and self-control to improve their performance.

Misty May and Kerri Walsh are gold medalist Olympic athletes.
Stephen Curry is a 6-time NBA All Star.
Carli Lloyd is a gold medalist Olympic athlete.
Derek Jeter is a 5-time World Series champion.
LeBron James is a 3-time NBA champion.
Kobe Bryant is a 5-time NBA champion.

Did you know you can find examples of self-control and mindfulness in movies? 

I was introducing my children to the original Karate Kid movies and found a great example near the beginning of Karate Kid II!

Take a couple of minutes to watch the clip I have included and think about a creative way to use breathing and mindfulness to work on self-control. 

Maybe this week you can create your own mindfulness breath.
I know I will utilize the movie clip with students and have them try the “Karate Kid Breath.”


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Thursday, November 21, 2019

The Mindful Side of Food


Before we even dive into the mindful aspect of eating lets back up our lesson with some science of eating. If you are a fast eater you are 42% more likely to be overweight, as compared to a slow eater. When you eat quickly you do not give your body enough time to signal your brain that you are full. Slower eating helps your brain work together with your body to run at its best.

Thanksgiving is coming up and many of us are preparing to eat a lot of food. How many of us with sit down to a meal and mindfully enjoy our food? Most of us will eat without putting much or any thought into what we have heaped on our plates. In fact, some of us may eat the main course in a rush to get to dessert.

What if we took some time this week to work on mindful eating? Take time to look at the food. Really look at the colors, the preparation, the amount. Take time to smell the food. Smell how all the different foods weave together with each other. Take time to watch as we scoop the food onto our plates. Do we place the food with care in specific spots, or does it all land wherever? As we sit down, do we feel the food with our hands, pick it up with forks or spoons and then place a bit in our mouths and note the texture? Do we chew slowly and note the different and sometimes complex flavors of our foods? Or do we chew as quickly as we can just to get on to the next bite?

With a short week at school some of your classes may be engaging in a small thanksgiving experience with your students. Before enjoying food with your students take some time to talk with them about how to mindfully enjoy the meal. Savor the experience and flavors. Enjoy the environment and company. Engage in the experience.

Below is a link to another GoZen YouTube video. It is a cute clip that is less than 4 minutes. It walks you through mindfully eating chocolate. What could be better than that?


If you would like to some help mindfully eating with your class, let me know. I would love to come do a mindful eating lesson.
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Friday, November 15, 2019

Attitude of Gratitude



Over the course of our month of gratitude we have been working on our mindful gratitude. 

We have made a list of 100 things we can be grateful for, we have created a gratitude garden, and we have talked about how to hold one gratitude in our minds for 20 seconds.

Hopefully by this point in our month you and your class have begun a gratitude routine.

Hopefully you are daily journaling, talking about, or holding in your mind at least 3 things you are grateful for in your lives.

The next mindful step is to think about a person with whom we would like to write a gratitude note.

The video attached is from Soul Pancake. If you want to show your class some of it, I recommend previewing, there are a couple words to watch out for around 5 minutes 15 seconds. It is a great video that shows an experiment in extending gratitude. This takes us back to our first lesson with the 3E.

We need to emote: feel our gratitude, then we need to exercise it: hold the thought in our head and then show with our actions we are grateful, and then we need to express our gratitude: we need to let others know we are grateful for them and the things they do.

If you watched the whole video, then you have learned that the during the experiment the person who was the least happy at the start was the happiest at the end.

What if you took time this week to have your students write out gratitude notes and then you helped them make phone calls, walk to another class, or mail a letter out? What if the least happy student in your class could mindfully learn to be happier?

I know that it seems impossible to take a few minutes out of a tightly scheduled day, but what if 30 minutes of a gratitude lesson made your class happier? What if those 30 minutes you took out of your time one day helped you later in the week…or later that day? What if kindness spread in your class and those 30-minute stopped six, five minute arguments? What if you got the time back in peaceful and caring ways?

You can start small and help your students work on a SmileGram to share with someone. (I made some and have attached a copy in an email to all!)

I challenge us all to help warm the school with kindness and gratitude. I challenge us all to mindfully think of one person we are grateful for, write them a note, and the give it to them...or better yet, read it to them. 

Thursday, November 7, 2019

I am Grateful for...


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The link that has been shared is an 8-minute lesson on gratitude when life is difficult. It’s a cute animation which is from Go Zen. Go Zen has several useful videos you can explore on YouTube.

The video talks about cultivating gratitude in less than 20 seconds. This mindful gratitude lesson teaches us to think about one thing we are grateful for and hold that thought in our heads for 20 seconds.

We can utilize the skills we began practicing last week and build this into those skills. 

Utilizing our 3Es and holding our gratitude thoughts for 20 seconds can begin to change our outlook on ourselves and others. We can strengthen our prefrontal cortex and reduce stress and anxiety.

As I have been working with students to practice gratitude and plant flowers in our Gratitude Garden, I have learned some of our students struggle with gratitude. One student even told me that he loves his family, but he isn’t thankful for them.

Breaking down gratitude we can share with our students that gratitude is defined as; the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.

We can explore how we might notice gratitude in others and how others might observe gratitude in us. 

How ready are we to show appreciation and return kindness we receive?

After exploring what gratitude is and what it looks like we can then begin our gratitude list.

Some of our students may have a short list of gratitude. Some adults may have a short list. 

Take time to explore with your students the small, easy, and quick gratitudes and then begin to move toward the more complex and ever harder gratitudes.

I have started a list of gratitude prompts. Feel free to expand and add more in the comments. Let’s help each other and our students express our gratitude daily.

Gratitude Prompts
1.     About yourself
2.     Something beautiful
3.     Military *With Veteran’s Day on Nov 11 this is a great one to utilize when giving examples to students (or if you are in my house the day before is a sacred day the Marine Corps birthday)
4.     A song
5.     An accomplishment
6.     Something you’ve created
7.     A friend
8.     A smell
9.     A touch
10.  A taste
11.  A sight
12.  A sound
13.  What makes you smile
14.  Favorite season
15.  Something you like about Summer
16.  Something you like about Spring
17.  Something you like about Winter
18.  Something you like about Fall
19.  A holiday
20.  A time of day
21.  A country
22.  A state
23.  A city
24.  Any place
25.  About where you live
26.  A favorite food
27.  A favorite drink
28.  An ability
29.  A family member
30.  Any person
31.  Someone you look up to
32.  Someone you respect
33.  Someone who inspires you
34.  Something you look forward to
35.  A happy life lessons
36.  A difficult life lessons
37.  Something that challenges you
38.  A personality trait in yourself
39.  A personality trait in others
40.  Your heritage
41.  Item you use daily
42.  Most prized possession
43.  Hobbies
44.  Something about school/work
45.  Technology
46.  A movie
47.  A TV show
48.  A podcast/YouTube Channel
49.  A book
50.  What you do for fun
51.  Something that makes you laugh
52.  Something nice
53.  A part of nature
54.  A gift you’ve been able to give
55.  A gift you were given
56.  A hope
57.  A compliment
58.  A passion
59.  An animal
60.  A pet
61.  A family tradition
62.  Medicine
63.  Doctors
64.  Police
65.  Firefighters
66.  Fire Alarms—even in the cold
67.  Teachers
68.  Clothes
69.  Electricity
70.  Heat
71.  Air Conditioning
72.  Transportation
73.  Cleaning supplies (its germ season, I know this one makes me happy)
74.  Exercise
75.  Health
76.  Education
77.  Mindfulness—use mindful gratitude to be thankful for this practice which helps us be present, calmed, and focused
78.  Love
79.  Kindness
80.  Understanding
81.  Comfort
82.  Forgiveness
83.  Color
84.  Indoor plumbing
85.  Blankets --- I was so thankful I had extra in my car during the unplanned alarm and so where the students I wrapped up in them
86.  Giant Coloring Pages
87.  Sport you watch or play
88.  A value you hold
89.  Your faith/beliefs
90.  Favorite store
91.  Smiles (we had “what makes you smile” this one would be seeing others smile!)
92.  Hugs
93.  Kisses
94.  Free time
95.  Art
96.  Weekends
97.  Quiet moments
98.  Forgiveness
99.  Life

It felt good to make this list. My personal plan is to pick a few each day and do my 20 seconds of focus with the 3Es. 

I encourage you to start this practice for yourself and then begin to work on it with your students.

Wednesday, October 30, 2019

Let Gratitude Grow


November is our month of gratitude. There is not a better time to put into practice some mindful gratitude.

Much like mindfulness, gratitude can help our students with neuroplasticity (the ability for the brain to change and improve).

Remembering back to our beginning mindful education, we know that the prefrontal cortex in our brain is not fully formed until our early 20s. This means that our students biologically will struggle with filtering our negative thoughts and replacing them with positive thoughts. 

This is where our mindfulness comes in, helping our students work on growing and building up their prefrontal cortex.  Mindfulness is training our brain to be aware, without judgment, and then learning to let go of negative and create more positive.

A daily practice of gratitude can help remap connections in our brains. Much like mindfulness gratitude is a practice to help build up our prefrontal cortex.

Gratitude can help heal childhood wounds.

We have been exploring the reality that our classes are filled with high ACEs scores and students who do not know how to be courageous due to limited vulnerability.

Practicing mindful gratitude is a task that involves 3 Es. Emote, Express, Exercise. Take time to pause each day, bring to mind at least three things you are grateful for, note these things, and then embrace the feeling of gratitude toward these things.

Emote means to feel with great passion or to theatrically feel the emotions.

Express means to let others know what you are grateful for, share your gratitude with others, say it out loud, or write it down.

Exercise means to practice your gratitude and make a commitment to daily add to your gratitude list.

For the month of November as we focus on gratitude, I encourage you to take time to practice mindful gratitude with your class.

I challenge you to create a list, journal, or your own gratitude garden and have students list daily a gratitude.

I also encourage everyone to work on a flower for the school Gratitude Garden.

Let’s help gratitude grow in our students and ourselves.



Thursday, October 24, 2019

No Shame in being Vulnerable


Why should we practice mindfulness with our students? Why should we teach them heartful mindfulness?

If we took the time last week to look at the ACEs questions and think about our students than we are aware of the trauma that exists in our classrooms.

Brene Brown, a researcher on shame, vulnerability, and courage states that the number one casualty of trauma is vulnerability. Those who have experienced or are experiencing trauma do not know how to be vulnerable. Brene goes on to share that without vulnerability there is no courage.

We have previously addressed cultivating courage in our students. How can we help our students with courage if we first have not helped them be vulnerable?

We need to create classrooms in which our students grown their courage and vulnerability.

One of the greatest traumas stopping vulnerability for our students is, shame.

Students 5th grade and younger will define shame as being unlovable and this results in shame causing trauma.

Shame is highly connected with bullying.

Brene’s research found that 85% of people can remember a time they were shamed in school and this experience made them question their abilities, limiting their courage. We as educators have the power to cause great heartache for our students when we use shame or allow shame into our classrooms.

There is some good news too. Brene’s research also found that 90% of people can remember a teacher, administrator, coach, or another school staff member who made a positive impact on their lives and helped them believe in themselves. We as educators are powerful forces in the lives of our students.

When asked to list the biggest influences in their life’s students list, in order:
1.     Parents
2.    Teachers
3.     Clergy
4.     Peers

Educators are the second most influential forces in the lives of youth.

This takes us back to our original questions.

Why should we practice mindfulness with our students? Why should we teach them heartful mindfulness?

We need to create what Brene Brown calls a Daring Classroom. We need to open the lines of communication and reduce the occurrence of shame. We are highly important in the lives of our students.

For this week lets utilize heartful mindfulness to express kindness and compassion toward our students and teach our students to show kindness and compassion to others.

Engage in a random act of kindness this week.

Take time to plan it out. Note everything that is important when doing an act of kindness for others. Model this act by doing a random act of kindness for your students this week.

Leave a note on their desks with a heartfulness message. “You are worth teaching.” “You are needed in this classroom.” “You belong with our class community.” “You are cared for and wanted here.” “You matter.” 

Being vulnerable toward your students opens a line of communication, teaching them that in your classroom it is not only acceptable to be vulnerable, but that it is encouraged.

Once you have modeled this Random Act of Kindness Mindfulness, help your class create an act of kindness of their own.

This is our last week of our month focused on Bullying Awareness, lets utilize this week to increase kindness and reduce pain, hurt, and shame.

For further information regarding a Daring Classroom by Brene Brown I encourage you to watch the YouTube link included below. It’s a half hour well worth your time and attention.


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